Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Tiny Boy

This is the little face I turned down yesterday.  Alvin was hard to deny, but in the end, I decided I better wait until I add a 55-pound dog to my life.  But I won't lie, it was a hard decision to make.

In other news, my dining room chair has its first coat of yellow paint.  (Had to find some way to get out my disappointment, so I attacked the chair with vigor).

Monday, January 7, 2013

Missions Impossible

I was on a mission this weekend--several missions in fact.
1.)  Find an electric fireplace with a mantel on sale. Status:  Unfound, and unconvinced it's possible.
2.)  Make a decision on a second pet.  Status:  Waiting to hear back from an English Bulldog breeder in Richmond, and currently on the waiting list for an orange kitten at the local shelter.
3.)  Refinish the dining room chair.  Status:  Still ugly as ever.

Burlap with Flair
So while none of my missions were completed, I did make some progress on some.  I won't be buying an electric fireplace just so I can have a mantel in my home.  After visiting seven stores, shopping numerous online retailers, and continually coming up empty-handed, I decided perhaps now was not the time.  My beautiful mantel idea will have to wait.  Additionally, I'm waiting to see what comes through on either a dog or a cat.  The puppy is already potty-trained by the way.  And the chair can wait.  Motto from this weekend: WAIT.

What I did accomplish this weekend was baking chocolate chip cookies, cleaning my home, creating a new wreath for my door, and watched the Seahawks slam the Redskins into the ground (Sorry, RG3).  Over all, it was a good weekend....now if I'd just get a call about that adorable puppy.


I came across this photo on my phone...one of my all time favorites!
Kelton keeping mommy warm

Friday, January 4, 2013

Settling In

Getting back to the grind has proven to be harder than expected.  It's funny how quickly my little ears got out of practice from ignoring apartment noises.  I've considered posting a sign near the public stairway saying, "Please walk quietly--I hear every step!"  But, then I realized it just sounds creepy, and if I were the one walking, I think I'd stomp harder out of spite.  So instead, I place a pillow over my head, and resemble my father as I sleep.

On a positive note, it's good to be back on a schedule and return to some projects I've been looking forward to.  I have a dining room chair to repaint and upholster and a crazy quilt to begin. Winter is still around me, and I'm set to make use of the time inside my home.  It doesn't hurt that I also have a massage waiting for me tomorrow morning....I'm spoiled, I know.

Happy Weekend, and stay warm to those who have white winter lands outside their doors.

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

Saying Good Bye

Thank you, Dad and Mom, for a perfect Christmas vacation.  I realize you don't control the weather, and despite what she believes, Mom cannot  make it snow, but even that was perfect.  Hutch wasn't the only one who enjoyed looking out the window at the snowy white scape. :)

Thank you for your hospitality, delicious meals, fun adventures, all of the laughter, and most of all the time we spent together.  These past two weeks have been refreshing and an answer to prayer.  I love both of you very much. Looking forward to March!!!

Tuesday, January 1, 2013

Christmas Recap

Minnesota has a bad rep for her cold winters.  When I told friends where I was headed for Christmas, the concern fell over their faces and their first question was "why?"  In reality, Minnesota really isn't all that bad.  Yes, it can be cold, and yes it can snow quite a bit...but where else might you see this?
West Farm 2012
Okay, so today happens to be 14 below 0...so perhaps I spoke too soon about it not being unbearable.  But we definitely had days where we got to venture outside...

Uncle Alan taking Kelton for a tractor ride
But some of my favorite memories were made inside in the warm, cozy house.  It's a treat to watch Holly be a Mom.  She's an incredible Mamma.

Course, it isn't hard to love someone so sweet...
Kelton watching the birds
 The five of us went out for a nice dinner, giving Holly and Kent a break from parenthood while Tom and Diane babysat.  It was fun to get dressed up and eat a yummy dinner by the fire.



 Family photos on a day when it's in the teens is a tad bit adventurous...no one can say we're boring.

Did I mention I'm in love with this little man?

And Kelton is in love with Hutch
 This Christmas vacation was filled with many new memories.  Loved every minute of it.

Thursday, December 20, 2012

Au Revoir, Virginia. Bonjour Minnesota!

Je ne veux pas travailler....and now I don't have to anymore...at least for a couple weeks.  Hutch and I are plane-bound for Minneapolis this afternoon, crossing our fingers and toes the snow holds off until we get in.  Can't wait to get my arms around my cute little Kelton and the rest of my family.

Have a safe and merry Christmas!

***translation: I do not want to work.

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Light the Candle and Wait

The end of the world is near...and no, I'm not talking about December 21st.  Though it did cross my mind that some folks may have intentionally avoided that day for their holiday travel.  What day did I book my boss' flight? You betcha!  He chuckled when I asked him if he was concerned about flying on the last day of our existence, and he said he'd rather be up in the air if the earth starts exploding.  My, my how our views of the end of the world are different. Here I'm afraid the pilot might suddenly disappear, and he's worried about aliens.

The headlines and newsreels these past couple weeks are a reminder that this world is aching for something more.  It wasn't a gun who ransacked the mall in Oregon or the terrified children in their classrooms.  It was two men, consumed by their sinful nature and self doubt and yearning for something more that caused horrific pain in so many lives.  Our country remains stunned and sickened in the safety of our homes as we continue to watch memoirs and tributes for the brave souls who stood up to cruelty.  I don't want to over-discuss this topic, as I realize it physically hurts to think about what happened on those awful days, but I can't help but see how we continue to move in the direction of an utter need for Christ's return.

The Bible makes it clear we won't know the day or the hour of His return, and "He'll come like a thief in the night." December 21st won't be the day, but my how I pray the day is soon.  Our need for grace grows each day, and our need for His holiness if even greater.  Sin is multiplying at a rapid rate, but continues to look so enticing to all of us.  Temptation is around every corner, disasters are happening every day around the world, and all we can do--Children of God--is to live each minute of every hour of all days like it's our last.

If I'm still alive to see Christ's return, it is my prayer that I will have been able to resist temptation and defy sin in the face at the very moment.  I hope the thief returns to find me searching His face rather than looking away.  There's a tradition here in the South to light a candle in your window to symbolize your love and devotion to the family members who are away from home.  It's not only beautiful to drive by and see an old Colonial home lit up with small flickers, but it's a good reminder of what our country is founded on.

There is a candle lit in the window of my heart; waiting for His return.

Monday, December 17, 2012

Saddened

Our country remains shocked and grief-stricken over the horrific events of  this past week.   We cannot put into words how it makes us feel, and so many are left with one question: "Where was God?"

I don't have children, so I cannot even begin to imagine the pain of losing a child, especially in this way.  But the ugliness and cruelty is unmistakable.  And perhaps it's because I don't have a child that these claims of God being gone from school has hit me just as hard as the massacre of tiny babes.  There is no question that the teaching of religion and God has been sadly removed from our public school system, BUT, God was there among the chaos.

It was His hand that guided teachers into saving the lives of so many innocent little hearts.  It was God who comforted the terrified.  Sin is powerful, but God is stronger.  Satan is so good at blaming his work on God, and it's almost second nature for us to point the finger at the one saving us rather than the one swaying us.  I ache for the families who lost a loved one.  I hurt for the children who will have nightmares of that day.  And I cry for those who continue to think it was God who let this happen.

"God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth should change and though the mountains slip into the heart of the sea; though its waters roar and foam, though the mountains quake at its swelling pride. Selah. The LORD of hosts is with us; the God of Jacob is our stronghold. Selah."
 Psalm 46:1-3,7

Thursday, December 13, 2012

Making the 24 Count

I heard an interesting bit of news on the radio this morning.  President and Mrs. Obama are scheduled to host 24 holiday parties in the month of December.  That doesn't include the parties and galas they will attend rather than host.  24 parties.  I picture Michelle running into her over sized closet, frantically stripping off her gown and throwing it to the side so she can grab the next gown hanging on the satin hangar, clearly marked for the evening's event.  Her down-do turns into a quick up-do, new pumps are donned, and a new diamond necklace clasps behind her neck.  With a quick nod to the mirror, she grabs her wrap and briskly walks down toward the front corridor to greet her next set of guests. Two parties down, and maybe one more to go...and that's just one day. 

The holidays are a great time to celebrate family, friends, culture, and yes maybe even political ideals for some.  And while some may think 24 parties in one month sounds glamorous, I can't help but wonder if they even enjoy the events.  Do they really invest in the people they've invited into their big white home?  Do they find joy in picking the fancy menus and the presidential china it will be served upon?  Do their faces get tired from all of the sincere or insincere smiling?  How many clammy hands have they shaken as they greet their nervous guests?

I found myself wondering all this and more just from the simple radio story this morning.  I wondered what might happen if the President opted to host 24 unaired charities in the month of December.  What might happen if Michelle arrived to a shelter and distributed gifts to battered women and their children?  What would happen if President Obama sat in on a business lesson at the New York State Penitentiary where prisoners are trying to set their lives straight with education?  What would happen if the Obamas opened the White House to a couple dozen orphans and played White Christmas in their living room?

And then my random thoughts, now half way to work, wandered to my own responsibility during this season.  Why is it I felt like the Presidential family had an obligation for social justice and service, but my own name never came to mind?  I sit here tonight reminded that anyone can donate their love, time, and funds to someone less fortunate.  It may mean giving your hot leftovers to a homeless man curled into a fetal position on the frozen sidewalk.  It may look like sending a shoebox full of toiletries and toys to Africa.  It may require time behind a food line, spooning warm soup into metal bowls.  What I'm trying to say, in once again way too many words, is that anyone can serve. 

We may not all host 24 parties, but we do all have 24 days in December before Christmas comes.  It's what we do with those days that counts.

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Flustered to Thrilled

Whoever says blogging is a waste of time or just another venue for self-centered complaints should come talk to me.  Oh, I have my moments of desparation when I hop on to divulge my latest catastrophe or annoyance.  And,I do write about unimportant topics like oil lamps, baking, and puppies.  Wait, did I just say oil lamp?  I do believe it may have slipped out before I intended, so I suppose I have to tell you the oil finally arrived!!!  Remember several weeks ago when I mentioned my treasure discovered in the Litchfield antique store?  And remember how I went on and on and ON about how important patience really is?  Yeah....well....thanks to that blog, I felt obligated to actually be patient.  So when I was informed the oil was damaged and wouldn't arrive on time, but rather a week and a half late...let's just say when I would have normally drooped my shoulders and let out an overdramatized sigh, I instead remembered that I'd practically boasted about my ability to be patient, so I better try it out for once...

And this is me...finally getting to be OVERJOYED about my new lamp BURNING in MY living room!!!!!  Take that, blog-doubters.  I actually learned something from my own little insignificant waste of internet space.

Today was a doozy of a day, but I think tonight is a good example of how God cares about the little things in life.  When I opened my front door, the To Do list was reeling out of control.  Before I put Hutch's leash on to take him outside, I was hunched over a long piece of paper writing down everything that needed tending to tomorrow.  It was as if those tasks might blow up in my head if they were not recorded.  Half way down the list, I remembered the box sitting on the counter...the oil had finally arrived!  What a perfect way to end my day!  And as if lighting the lamp had some magical powers, almost as if I'd rubbed its side and hoped for a genie, the stress melted away.  I'm pretty sure God knew I might just need a little pick-me-up after today's debacles.  And was He right!

Monday, December 10, 2012

3 Cheers for Sugar & Spice

I tackled a big project this weekend...well, two projects, really.
1. Finish making homemade gifts.  Check!
2. Bake for holiday gifts. Check!

Saturday wiped me out, but in such a good way.  Ten hours straight of baking, and the finished product is quite fun. Thanks to Martha Stewart's ingenuity and marketing campaign, I now have a fun way to deliver the cookies and fudge.

Christmas is coming...and I'm not sure if it's the goose or me that's getting fat.

And, if you still don't feel in the holiday mood...check out my favorite blog, and watch a dozen little feet discover the magic of Christmas...Click Here

Friday, December 7, 2012

Hellooo, Friday!


After a very full week, I'm pleased to know it's Friday morning.  I'm prepping for a big baking weekend, and wrapping up the last of my Christmas gift projects.  Yay!!!

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Thursday, December 6, 2012

Dumpster Diving Success

Break out the paintbrush and yellow paint; I found me a chair!!!

(For those who are wondering if I've gone insane, I've been on the lookout for free chairs to complete my dining room set.  On my trip to the dumpster last night, this little baby screamed my name and asked me to take her home.  A little paint, some new upholstery, and she'll be good as new!  Only one more chair to go!)

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Being Available

It's so easy to get distracted by schedules and my own personal life.  This is easily one of my biggest flaws.  By the time the clock strikes 0700, I'm well on my way toward a day that requires my full attention.  Fill the dog bowl, water the plants, make the bed, respond to emails, prioritize duties, check in with employees, confirm scheduled meetings, prepare for scheduled meetings.  That all happens well before 0830, and by then, the real work starts rolling in...literally bearing the name Andy.  Don't get me wrong. I'm not complaining.  I'm only saying that I get caught up in this cycle of "get it done well, and it will pay off."...The oh-so-famous words that run through most DC dwellers' minds.

This mentality is well and good until I realize the amount of time that has slipped by since I last spoke to a friend on the phone.  Or when I realize I never responded to a letter written to me...last month.  Being available is a struggle.  It's not until the dishes are washed, the dog toys are put away, and my pajamas are donned that I feel the repercussions of my mis-focus.  The truth of the matter is this: I am lonely.  And before you jump to conclusions, hear me on this.  For the first time in a very long time, I'm taking full and complete responsibility for this empty feeling.  It's no particular friend's fault for my loneliness or lack of contact. It's purely my own mistake in being unavailable myself.

I'd like to think I can turn this very bad habit around and turn it into a refocus of the people in my life and the things that truly matter.  What is life without loving others and making them feel special?  There is always someone more lonely than me--and I hope to find that person and make her feel loved.

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

My Little Buddy

Last night, I had a little friend join me in watching Nashville.  I was laying on my tummy, and I felt this little creature move up my body and land just behind my shoulder.  He wanted to watch too!
(Notice he likes to hold my hand...)